Rookie

Madeline was invited to her first non-family, non-family friend birthday party.  Her little friend from preschool was turning four and invited all the little girls from her class.  I have to admit, I was probably more nervous than she was.  Silly as it was, I had SO many questions.  Do I stay with her?  Do I drop her off? What does she wear?  What kind of present do I bring?

I felt like such a rookie mom!  It had been a long time since I felt that, probably the day Madeline was born!  So, I thought back to when I had birthday parties.  I remember a picture of my third birthday party with all my friends in their party frocks and black mary janes eating cake around my parents table.  There were no other parents in sight.  So, I dressed Madeline up in her church dress, cute shoes and decided I wasn't going to stay.  I bought a couple small little gifts and wrapped them up.  I took a deep breath and drove Madeline to the party.

As I pulled up to the house, there were numerous cars there.  I walk in and ALL THE MOMS ARE THERE.  In fact, one of the moms is actually participating...she's face painting all the girls faces!!  I walk in a little further and another mom is helping all the little girls with a project!!  As the party goes on, it gets more crafty and more educational and I am feeling more and more behind the times.  As the party wrapped up, the party favors were handed out and I couldn't believe the loot Madeline came home with. She may as well have been the birthday girl.

Don't get me wrong, the party was super cute and Madeline had a great time.  The only questions I have left are:  are ALL parties like this now???  and do I have to go next time???  :)

Madeline post party